tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372764719511714509.post1942158257132101652..comments2023-10-23T07:01:03.566-07:00Comments on Naheed Zafar: Date not setNaheed Zafarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06882141511838527208noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372764719511714509.post-78462318420143398712009-01-26T05:28:00.000-08:002009-01-26T05:28:00.000-08:00I've only been on one date in the "traditional" se...I've only been on one date in the "traditional" sense. We met when I was out dancing with my friends and he asked for my number. Three days later he called and asked me out and I said yes. Two day later he picked me up at my parents house and took me to see some action movie that I didn't like and then we had dinner at a loud and noisy restaurant. He was a proper gentleman, opened doors for me payed it all and so on. I never saw him again. <BR/><BR/>The first time my husband took me out we went to the shooting range to do target practice... and I surprised him by being an excellent marksman. Somehow I "forgot" to tell him that I already knew how to shoot. =)<BR/>The second time he took me to the computer club and I spent hours trying to decipher geek-speak and figure out how to use a computer. This was back in the 80's and I had only seen one computer before that and never actually used one. <BR/>The third time he took me out he took me to a street cruise. We both like old American cars and we spent the night looking at cars and listening to rockabilly. <BR/>That was it for me, no more dates, we got engaged and I moved to live with him. (Very much to the horror of my parents, but they have gotten over it by now.) <BR/><BR/>My friends talk about the etiquette connected to dating, he has to call back in so-and-so many days, not try to kiss before so-and-so number of dates and so on but I think it's just silly. Dating is about getting to know the other person and have fun together in a "safe" and comfortable setting. By safe I mean a setting where you don't feel the pressure to do this or that if you don't want to whether it be riding merry-go-rounds or coming to close for comfort. (There are unfortunately a few guys out there that has a problem understanding limits and such.)Kadri Luikhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10737576663295161881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2372764719511714509.post-68062744026436930322009-01-25T21:33:00.000-08:002009-01-25T21:33:00.000-08:00I don't date,but I think google search can be a go...I don't date,but I think google search can be a good start up:)Daanishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07679198751327836927noreply@blogger.com